Step-Families

It has been estimated that 1 in 3 people in the UK presently lives in a step-family situation in some form or another.  With the increase in marriage and relationship breakdown step-families are becoming far more commonplace but no-one ever sets out with the intention to become a step-parent.  Instead, this is the natural consequence of a relationship breaking down and one or both parties moving on to subsequent partners.

Being part of the new family unit will raise many issues for both the adults and the children.  There will be difficult times as everyone adjusts but lots of enjoyable times as a family too.

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Typical issues the step-family may face include:

• The children’s reactions to the new family unit;
• The arrival of a new baby for you and your partner;
• Making time for each other in the new family unit;
• Establishing a new routine and traditions in your new family;
• Creating and maintaining a healthy relationship between you and your former spouse;
• Grief expressed by the children when they realise their parents are never getting back together;
• Discipline in the household.  Some children may show their insecurity with difficult behaviour.

Click here for an article by Francine Kaye regarding "Step-Families and How to Survive Them".  Francine Kaye is a family counsellor, mediator and relationship coach.  Francine regularly appears on TV, radio and in the press and national magazines, providing her guidance and expertise on all relationship issues.

With thanks to Francine for her kind contribution to our website.